DH and I also have now been together 4 years, married 2.5. We now have a 14mo DD. We have been inside our thirties.
DH is a guy that is stand-up. and hilarious. He does loads around the home, shitwork etc. and co-parents our DD beautifully. We now have a laugh and good conversation and can get on quite nicely. I will be really fortunate We realise.
So just why the fuck do we constantly consider making?
We fantasize about having my very own spot (sharing care of DD obv). Being solitary and achieving my very own room once more. We secretly look forward to him going away on work trips, have always been inwardly relieved as he decamps into the bedroom that is spare and frequently find myself merely seething with discomfort with him and now have intense wants to run far.